Im 37 years old and my husband is 31. He is a very sexual person and i'm not. He wants sex everyday and im good 1's a week maybe twice if he has been nice. He feels i have a sexual problem and I feel he needs pills to control he's hormones lol! No seriouly im so lost I dont know what to do. I dont want him to end up cheating on me, but most of the time im tired or dont feel apprieciated so that doesnt help the situation. I lovehim and still find him attractive, thats why i need direction. PLEASE HELP!Wednesday, November 16, 2011
What Type Of Specialist Do I Go To For Intamacy Problems?
Im 37 years old and my husband is 31. He is a very sexual person and i'm not. He wants sex everyday and im good 1's a week maybe twice if he has been nice. He feels i have a sexual problem and I feel he needs pills to control he's hormones lol! No seriouly im so lost I dont know what to do. I dont want him to end up cheating on me, but most of the time im tired or dont feel apprieciated so that doesnt help the situation. I lovehim and still find him attractive, thats why i need direction. PLEASE HELP!
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Simpson G - A psychiatrist. If you can find one that deals with couples psychiatry or family psychiatry, even better.
ReplyDeletegazeygoo - Start with your regular doc and make sure there isn't a medical issue that is holding you back and go from there.
ReplyDeleteEmmett Brown - I have the same issue. Most of the time it's cause I'm tired(we have different schedules). But talk to him about it and try to work with him on the situation. There is hope! There's also things you can take to heighten your arousal like women's extense, aphrodisiacs, etc.
ReplyDeleteGary B - You FIRST go to you General Practitioner, and get a COMPLETE physical, including the physical exam AND all necessary blood work. A short turn on the Heart monitor would be a good idea.
ReplyDelete[You husband NEEDS to have physical, too. early detection of problems like Diabetes, high blood pressure, or Prostate Cancer could save a LOT of sorrow and grief later.]
TELL THE DOCTOR YOUR PROBLEM -- you are too tired to have sex. He/she has heard it before.
There are MANY problems that could cause you lack of willingness, including BOTH diabetes and Anemia (common in menstruating women). The doctor should be able to check for these, or give you a clean bill of health.
IF NOTHING is found, you THEN talk with your gynecologist. Again, there could be some specific problem underlying the tiredness.
if all else fails, look for a psychiatrist. You may be experiencing depression, or have other mental or emotional issues. But you need to be PHYSICALLY healthy FIRST before you start blaming the brain.